Customs and Traditions
Here's a story I heard some time ago whichseems
to epitomize the valuewe as human beings place on customs and traditions.
Many years ago, agovernment officialtaking a walk,spotteda soldier
standing by a rose garden, as if he were guarding it. Approaching the
soldier, thegovernment officialinquired Why are
you standing here? The soldier, standing
at attention replied, This is my post, Sir, its the place I've been
assigned. Puzzled, the government officialasked, And why youhave you
beenassigned here? Unable to answer, the soldier replied, With all due
respect, Sir, I do not question my orders. ... I do not know.
Unsatisfied with the soldier's answer,the government official vowed to
find out why he was guarding a rose garden. Returning to his office, the
officialimmediately ordered his assistants to investigate.A few days
passed, andstill there was no answer,so the archival record supervisor
was called. Surely he would be able tofind out why there was a soldier
guardingthe rose garden on government groundsoutside his office.
Irritated that things were taking so long, the official went to see thearchival
supervisor for an answer, and this is what he found.
"Apparently, and according to the record,"
said the supervisor,"approximately a century ago, these government office
buildings were part of a rather large royal estate. During that time, a
sickly princess abode here, and the rose garden was hers." "Apparently
she loved roses." Feeling impatient, the official nearly shouted,
What does this have to do with the soldier?
If I may continue Sir," replied the supervisor, "I assure you,the story
will answer your question. Very well, continue, said the official. Yes,
Sir, I shall." "Because the young princess wasgravely ill,she and herparents
were admonished by the royal physicianthat she should not to leave the
palace for any reason. Theprincess, overhearing the instruction, was
heartbroken as she loved the palace grounds, the sunshine, and the flowers
in particular. She felt that she would not survive if she could not see
her beloved flowers, and the roses in
the middle of the garden in particular. Her
parents, the king and queen, did everything they could to comfort her, but
she became quite listless, and depressed. Fearing the worst, at last they
hit upon a plan. Since the princess was allergic to flowers, and
especially to roses, they knew they could not try to grow the flowering
plants indoors. "But what if a rose garden could be planted outside of
her window," they asked themselves. So the gardener was called, conferred
with, and plans were drawn up toplant the most extensive and beautiful
rose garden just outsidetheprincess's
window. Months later, the gardencomplete,only
one last detail remained; the protecting of the princess and her newly
acquired garden.To ensurethis,the king passed a lawthat a soldier
must watch the garden day and night.
"So you see Sir,"continued the
supervisor,"although the Princess died, the law was never repealed,and
therefore it continues evento this day. Speechless, the Officialthanked
the supervisor and left the records room thinking, How manyother thingsare
we doing that are no longer needed? Perhaps we might need to ask the
same question of ourselves, "how many thingsam I doing which are no
longer
necessary?The answer might surprise us.
Customs and traditions are hard to break once internalized, because they
help define us as individuals, and strengthen our feelings of belonging.
As establishedboundaries, customs and traditions make it easier for usto
know how to behave, and what to expect from others.Handed down
intergenerationally, and reinforced by friendsand society, customs and
traditionsarenot oftenquestioned.Unaware as to why weengage in
thesepre-approved beliefs, attitudes or behaviors, we often have no idea
as to what led up
to them, or evenwho originated them.What's
really strange is that so many of us findmeaning and purpose in these
traditions, and that wefeel thatwe must protect them at all costs. Its
sad that we can be so passionately offended and equally determined to
protectthings which by their very nature are transitory.
This is the situation we find as we read
Mark 7. the Pharisees have time honored traditions and customs which are
ceremonial in nature having been delivered through Moses to the Israelites
in the wilderness. The purpose of this law was manifold, but centered in
bringing to the Hebrew consciousness thenecessity of cleanliness, purity
and holiness.Unfortunately, the meaning of the ceremonial laws were lost
sight of, and through human pride and perversity, the leadership made themastumbling
block to the people. The Priests,Phariseesand Scribes founda loophole
to find fault with the disciples, through the mechanism of Jesusnot
honoring their ceremonial stumbling blocks. Thus, when the disciples ate
bread without washing their hands, as was considered customary, the
Pharisees promotedconfusion and unbeliefby calling them 'defiled' to
Jesus in the presence ofHis followers(See Mark 7:2 - 5). The Pharisees'
questions disclosed their belief that the tradition of the elders was more
important and necessary than the Word of God.In Mark7 verse 6, Jesus
answers them saying:
Mark 7:6 Well hath Esaias prophesied of
you hypocrites, as it iswritten, This people honoureth me with their
lips, but their heart is farfrom Me.
Mark 7:7 Howbeit in vain do they worship Me, teaching for doctrines
the
commandments of men.
Mark 7:8For laying aside the commandment of God, ye hold the
tradition
of men, as the washing of pots and cups: and many other
such like thingsye do.
Mark 7:9 And He said unto them, Full well ye reject the commandment of
God, that ye may keep your own tradition.
Mark 7:10For Moses said, Honour thy father and thy mother; and, Whoso
curseth father or mother, let him die the death:
Mark 7:11 But ye say, If a man shall say to his father or mother, It is
Corban, that is to say, a gift, by whatsoever thou
mightest be profited by
me; he shall be free.
Mark 7:12 And ye suffer him no more to do ought for his father or his
mother;
Mark 7:13Making the Word of God of none effect through your tradition,
which ye have delivered: and many such like things do
ye.
And many such like things do we. How many
times have suggestions to change old customsbeen met with the infamous, This
is the way weve always done it.And occasionally you may hear, We
dont want to change. Yet, those who say they want things to remain the
same, are the very same ones who complain of staleness.When we behave
like this, its as ifwe want our cake and we want to eat it too. Just in
proportion to our rejection of the True Source of change and growth,will
be the strength of our hold onto meaningless traditions. Its just
possible brothers
and sisters, that in our blindness -- in our
inability to see things are they really are without spiritual discernment,
we are rejecting thesource of light and of life. Without the special
work of the Holy Spirit, we may be reinforcing customs and traditions
which nullify the Word of God.
The establishment of new practices,
traditions and customs to replace the old ways, is not necessarily the
answer either. For we mayunknowingly establish that whichis just as
devoid of the Holy Spirit's power and blessing asiswhat we've left
behind.Our realneed is union with God, not unity with God (i.e. meand
God) but one-ness
with Him. And no amount of tradition or
custom -- old or new-- can ever facilitate that oneness. It is only found
in the yielding of our self-will or self -love to Him.Godsays, "The
Lord is near unto them that are of a broken heart;and saveth such asbe
contrite of spirit," and"...Idwell in the high and holy place with him
also that is of a contrite
and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of
the humble and to revive the heart of the contrite ones(Ps. 34:18; Is.
57:15)).
Sister White has said in Desire of Ages that
even when faced with a "Thus saith the Lord..." many will choose their
customs and traditions, so deeply are they engrained. Brothers and
sisters, we cannot hold to things that are unnecessary and outdated any
more than we can establish new means to serve old purposes. The Lord is
more than
willingto draw nearer, and show us the true
principles of His kingdom which our traditions and customs have been
hiding. He is even waiting andable, to do exceedingly andabundantly
more than we could ask or think (Eph. 3:20).
Let us choose in humbleness of heart and
mind to yield self, and open the door to Him. We shall be ever so glad we
did.
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